Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Out and about

Okay, so the long weekend turned out better than I had hoped!! Thursday was women's day, and I went out with some friends to a place called "The View". You can pretty much see the whole of Joburg from there. Breathtaking!  Can you beleive I climbed up the mountain in a pair of heels...
And of course, no women's day celebrations are complete without a round of cosmopolitans!! (That's me on the far right) Mom, on the other hand, left for botswana with my sister! Such great news... the weekend could only get better!


Tiger and I
 Moving on... Friday night was fun. Hung out with my girl, Tiger. A lot of drama, but I'd rather not get into it. Lets just say I got home at 6am! Spent saturday with the world's greatest boyfriend- whose birthday is coming up soon!(okay it's about a month away) I had planned to get the perfect present, but since I'm not working anymore, I doubt I'll be able to get it. My budget has been cut down to about a third of what I had originally planned *sigh* which really sucks cause buying a present for a guy is quite difficult.


Anyway, my boyfriend said something that got me thinking... "I don't want my girlfriend to be accessible to just anyone!" I'll admit, I didn't know how to process that at first. My initial reaction was that he's trying to control me. Then he said "I'm not accessible to just any female", and that IS true. It's one of the things I like about him. And when he said it like that- I realised that I liked the idea! Now to implement! I started by deleting random people off my bbm... which was the easy part, the hard part is having to ignore the guys that I didnt delete. Okay, I know ignoring sounds harsh, but they need to get used to the idea that I'm only available when it's important (euphemism for extreme emergencies.) I've been doing it for a week, and I must say, I've cut down on alot of pointless conversations! Me having too many friends is something even my parents complain about. To be precise, my dad recently said, "When you have so many friends, how do you point out the right ones?" I've never seen it as a bad thing, but if  the people closest to me keep warning me about it, I guess it's time I listened!!

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